Prayerful Home is a St. Maria Goretti initiative to encourage parishioners to prayerfully bring the faith beyond the church building and into their homes.
Be realistic with your time and situation to pick something that works for you and your family right now. This isn't a competition with anyone else or with who you were.
Learn from this celebration when you decide what to do for the next one. Was it too much, not enough, or just right? Did you like the type of task or want to try something different?
It doesn't have to be perfect. Remember that God has a sense of humor. He knows you, and He loves you. He sees the effort you are putting in, and it makes Him happy.
It doesn't have to be big or flashy; it can be, but doesn't have to be.
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A saint is a special friend of Jesus who gets to spend all eternity in heaven with God.
The Catholic Church recognizes some men and women as being in heaven with Jesus through a special process called "canonization." These men and women are given the title of "Saint" to indicate they are holy examples for us to follow.
However, we believe there are many other men and women living in heaven who haven't been recognized by the Church. These men and women are still saints but do not have the official title from the Church.
Sometimes you will hear people refer to the canonized saints as capital "S" saints and all other saints as lower case "s" saints to help differentiate.
God wants YOU to be a saint and desires to be with YOU for all eternity, because He loves YOU!
Becoming a saint is not an unattainable goal nor a prideful expedition but an answer to God’s call. He created each human in his image and likeness with an intellect to know Him through prayer, a free will to answer His call, and an immortal soul to live with Him in eternity.
"We have only today. Let us begin." - St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta
The Process of Canonization can start 5 years after a person's death. The five year span is a "cooling off" period of sorts. It allows for the rose-colored glasses about a person's life to come off after the initial sadness and excitement following his or her death. If after those five years, there is still a desire from the local community, they may petition the local bishop to give his approval for the process to begin. This desire after five years usually indicates a lasting impact on the community of someone who truly lived a holy life (not just the immediate emotional impact that losing someone can have).
Diocesan Level
Once the bishop approves and the process starts, the candidate is called "Servant of God." A committee to promote the cause of the candidate’s sainthood is created by the diocese. This committee searches the candidate’s writings/creations to make sure the candidate truly lived a virtuous, holy life. They create a biography compiling all the information about the candidate's life that is available including recording eye witness accounts. All this information is sent to the Vatican in Rome.
Vatican Level
The material from the diocese is presented to the Congregation for the Causes of Saints in Rome (CCS), who compiles it into a “Positio." A postulator is appointed to be the overseer of that particulate candidate's case throughout the process. The positio is tried by a panel of 9 theologians and must be confirmed with a majority vote. It is then passed onto a panel of bishops and cardinals who also have to confirm it with a majority vote. Only after the case is confirmed by those two panels will the CCS present the case to the pope. If the pope reviews the case and gives his approval, the case moves forward and the candidate is now called "Venerable." At this point, the body of the candidate is exhumed and examined (this is how we find saints who are incorruptible). The CCS will also collect relics of the Venerable.
Miracles
The remainder of the canonization process is dependent on 2 miracles being obtained through the Venerable's intercession. Each of the miracles will undergo the same scrutiny as the candidate's life (diocesan investigation and approval where the miracle took place, then 2 panels trial and approval at the Vatican, and finally the pope's approval).
Beatification
When a miracle has been approved through the intercession of a Venerable, the CCS recommends the Pope declare him or her to be "Blessed." The miracle confirms the person's reputation for holiness. Martyrs are the exception to this part of the process. If a Venerable is declared a martyr by the Church, they may be beatified right away and only need one miracle to be obtained through his or her intercession. The first miracle for a martyr is the strength of virtue to not deny Christ even unto death. The Blessed can be given a feast day and a patronage, but they are usually restricted to use by his or her home diocese.
Canonization
When a second miracle has been approved through the Blessed's intercession, the CCS recommends to the Pope that he or she be canonized as he or she is worthy of veneration due to their heroically virtuous life. The second miracle is confirmation that the person is in heaven, interceding to God on our behalf. The Pope will enroll the person in the Canon of Saints at a special Mass which can take place in Rome or in the saint's home town. At their canonization, the (now) saint is given an official feast day and patronage. Veneration throughout the universal Church community is now encouraged.
When the Catholic Church canonizes someone, they are telling the entire world that that individual lived a holy life, one filled with heroic virtue. They are examples of men and women who lived on this earth just like you and me. They are family members who want what is best for us. They know what it's like to live here in the broken world with their struggles, successes, jobs, habits (good and bad), shortcomings, passions, favorite things, etc. With all of that, the saints kept their eyes focused on God, choosing to consistently say yes to whatever he asked and received a place in heaven as their reward. They show us with their lives the priority we should give to prayer, the Mass, the Eucharist, Reconciliation, and love. We want to learn from them and be encouraged by them. If they can do it, so can we!
Even now, the saints are men and women who reside in heaven with God, who use their eternal paradise to talk to Him on our behalf, who look forward to welcoming us - their family - home to heaven.
We honor the saints by trusting them as beloved members of our families, as our closest of friends. We follow their example, we ask for their intercession, we welcome them into our lives and our homes, and we introduce them to others.
Ways to Follow their example and Ask for their intercession
Consistently say "yes" to God
Go to Mass
Receive the Eucharist
Go to Reconciliation
Build a strong relationship with God through prayer
Learn about the saint's life - what were they passionate about, what were their gits and talents, what were their struggles, how did they handle all of those things
Look for a prayer to that saint or write one of your own; talk to him or her about something you have in common that you'd like their help with
Ways to Welcome them into homes, lives, and relationships
Find out their feast day and celebrate it
How does your family usually celebrate an achievement or special occasion? Do the same for that saint
Did they have a favorite food you could eat?
What country were they from, pick a food or decor that coincides with that heritage (St. Maria Goretti was from Italy, decorate with red/white/green or eat pasta)
What is something they are known for or loved to do? Try to imitate those actions (St. Therese of Lisieux tried to do little acts of love throughout her day)
Put up pictures or statues of the saints (just like you would of family and friends), be ready to share something about them if you're asked
Bring them into your conversations with others, "I know someone who dealt with that..." or "I just read this funny story about..."
Check out The Little Rose Shopwhich has a calendar of feasts and celebrations that you can add to your personal calendar (Google, Outlook, Apple, Yahoo, Office 365).
St. Peter Claver
Feast Day: Sept 9
“Man’s salvation and perfection consists of doing the will of God which he must have in view of all things, and at every moment of his life.” – St. Peter Claver
Reflection: In today’s society, we seem to forget the central purpose of our life. We are meant to love God above all else, and our pursuit should be to attain Heaven one day. We should be focused on doing God’s will instead of our own. We seem to live in a society where our lives are about us. Our status is what matters most. Our name, our activities, our achievements, our status above all needs to be highlighted to others. Society tells us that our image needs to be perfected so that we can attract others. Our self-esteem almost seems to pivot around how others perceive us. It seems as though we are trying to glorify ourselves sometimes. Social media has damaged our appropriate thought patterns of what we should think about in terms of self.
When we think about all these things, we can see how harmful it can be to ourselves. Also, we can think about how much God hurts when we put ourselves before Him. We know that it doesn’t have to be this way. Instead, we need to be praying and asking God what His will is for our lives. We must consciously decide to revert our thought processes. Whenever someone gives us a compliment, we can say to ourselves, “All for the glory and power of You, O Lord.” We can spend time in prayer to discern what God is calling us toward as well. May we take the emphasis off ourselves and our achievements. May our focus rather be on serving God and doing His will.
This week, try acknowledging the Lord in all you say and do. May we pray to release ourselves from the sin of vanity and glorifying of our own name. Instead, let us pray, “Not to us, O Lord, but to your name give the glory” (Psalm 115:1). May our eyes be turned toward Heaven, focusing on our pursuit of Eternity.
Prayer: Dear God, may I spend my time glorifying Your name and not my own. Please help me to listen to Your voice as I discern what you are calling me to do. In the little (and big) things I do and say, may I pursue You every single day. I love You. Amen.
“This is the cause of all evils, the not knowing the Scriptures. We go into battle without arms, and how are we to come off safe?” – St. John Chrysostom
Reflection: How well do we know and recite scripture? In the busyness of life, we sometimes can put other things ahead of our prayer lives. St. John Chrysostom emphasizes the importance of reading and memorizing scripture. By fixating on the word of God, we are arming ourselves as we face daily challenges of life.
God’s word is the truth. If we deepen our connection to knowing and loving scripture, we will have the tools to fight against sin and falsehoods. Society has veered far from what is good and moral. It is easy to become entranced by the ways of the world. However, we have to be rooted in faith so we can speak the truth to ourselves, our neighbors, and those who don’t know Christ.
Let’s remember to take time to read scripture (daily if possible).* More than that, let us take the time to memorize verses. When we are in need, we will be able to quote the words of scripture. When we are going through a difficult trial, we will have words to console us. When we are in a joyous season, we can praise God with scripture. In all moments, may we pray with God’s word.
Prayer: Dear God, thank you for giving sacred scripture to Your people. It is such a gift to have Your word available to us at all times. May I take the time to pray with scripture. May the words console, heal, and direct me as I go about my days. May I focus on You above all. I love You! Amen.
*It could be a good habit to start praying with the Word by reading the daily mass readings. You can easily access them online or have them sent straight to your phone or email inbox. By reading the mass readings, you will get to read a collection of scripture passages each day from the Old and New Testament. There are also daily gospel reflections available from priests, nuns, and other Catholic organizations. Reading these reflections and scripture passages could be a great way to start or end your day in prayer.
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