Prayerful Home is a St. Maria Goretti initiative to encourage parishioners to prayerfully bring the faith beyond the church building and into their homes.
Be realistic with your time and situation to pick something that works for you and your family right now. This isn't a competition with anyone else or with who you were.
Learn from this celebration when you decide what to do for the next one. Was it too much, not enough, or just right? Did you like the type of task or want to try something different?
It doesn't have to be perfect. Remember that God has a sense of humor. He knows you, and He loves you. He sees the effort you are putting in, and it makes Him happy.
It doesn't have to be big or flashy; it can be, but doesn't have to be.
Looking for more opportunities to celebrate the faith?
Check out The Little Rose Shopwhich has a calendar with more feasts and celebrations that you can add to your personal calendar (Google, Outlook, Apple, Yahoo, Office 365).
A saint is a special friend of Jesus who gets to spend all eternity in heaven with God.
The Catholic Church recognizes some men and women as being in heaven with Jesus through a special process called "canonization." These men and women are given the title of "Saint" to indicate they are holy examples for us to follow.
However, we believe there are many other men and women living in heaven who haven't been recognized by the Church. These men and women are still saints but do not have the official title from the Church.
Sometimes you will hear people refer to the canonized saints as capital "S" saints and all other saints as lower case "s" saints to help differentiate.
God wants YOU to be a saint and desires to be with YOU for all eternity, because He loves YOU!
Becoming a saint is not an unattainable goal nor a prideful expedition but an answer to God’s call. He created each human in his image and likeness with an intellect to know Him through prayer, a free will to answer His call, and an immortal soul to live with Him in eternity.
"We have only today. Let us begin." - St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta
The Process of Canonization can start 5 years after a person's death. The five year span is a "cooling off" period of sorts. It allows for the rose-colored glasses about a person's life to come off after the initial sadness and excitement following his or her death. If after those five years, there is still a desire from the local community, they may petition the local bishop to give his approval for the process to begin. This desire after five years usually indicates a lasting impact on the community of someone who truly lived a holy life (not just the immediate emotional impact that losing someone can have).
Diocesan Level
Once the bishop approves and the process starts, the candidate is called "Servant of God." A committee to promote the cause of the candidate’s sainthood is created by the diocese. This committee searches the candidate’s writings/creations to make sure the candidate truly lived a virtuous, holy life. They create a biography compiling all the information about the candidate's life that is available including recording eye witness accounts. All this information is sent to the Vatican in Rome.
Vatican Level
The material from the diocese is presented to the Congregation for the Causes of Saints in Rome (CCS), who compiles it into a “Positio." A postulator is appointed to be the overseer of that particulate candidate's case throughout the process. The positio is tried by a panel of 9 theologians and must be confirmed with a majority vote. It is then passed onto a panel of bishops and cardinals who also have to confirm it with a majority vote. Only after the case is confirmed by those two panels will the CCS present the case to the pope. If the pope reviews the case and gives his approval, the case moves forward and the candidate is now called "Venerable." At this point, the body of the candidate is exhumed and examined (this is how we find saints who are incorruptible). The CCS will also collect relics of the Venerable.
Miracles
The remainder of the canonization process is dependent on 2 miracles being obtained through the Venerable's intercession. Each of the miracles will undergo the same scrutiny as the candidate's life (diocesan investigation and approval where the miracle took place, then 2 panels trial and approval at the Vatican, and finally the pope's approval).
Beatification
When a miracle has been approved through the intercession of a Venerable, the CCS recommends the Pope declare him or her to be "Blessed." The miracle confirms the person's reputation for holiness. Martyrs are the exception to this part of the process. If a Venerable is declared a martyr by the Church, they may be beatified right away and only need one miracle to be obtained through his or her intercession. The first miracle for a martyr is the strength of virtue to not deny Christ even unto death. The Blessed can be given a feast day and a patronage, but they are usually restricted to use by his or her home diocese.
Canonization
When a second miracle has been approved through the Blessed's intercession, the CCS recommends to the Pope that he or she be canonized as he or she is worthy of veneration due to their heroically virtuous life. The second miracle is confirmation that the person is in heaven, interceding to God on our behalf. The Pope will enroll the person in the Canon of Saints at a special Mass which can take place in Rome or in the saint's home town. At their canonization, the (now) saint is given an official feast day and patronage. Veneration throughout the universal Church community is now encouraged.
When the Catholic Church canonizes someone, they are telling the entire world that that individual lived a holy life, one filled with heroic virtue. They are examples of men and women who lived on this earth just like you and me. They are family members who want what is best for us. They know what it's like to live here in the broken world with their struggles, successes, jobs, habits (good and bad), shortcomings, passions, favorite things, etc. With all of that, the saints kept their eyes focused on God, choosing to consistently say yes to whatever he asked and received a place in heaven as their reward. They show us with their lives the priority we should give to prayer, the Mass, the Eucharist, Reconciliation, and love. We want to learn from them and be encouraged by them. If they can do it, so can we!
Even now, the saints are men and women who reside in heaven with God, who use their eternal paradise to talk to Him on our behalf, who look forward to welcoming us - their family - home to heaven.
We honor the saints by trusting them as beloved members of our families, as our closest of friends. We follow their example, we ask for their intercession, we welcome them into our lives and our homes, and we introduce them to others.
Ways to Follow their example and Ask for their intercession
Consistently say "yes" to God
Go to Mass
Receive the Eucharist
Go to Reconciliation
Build a strong relationship with God through prayer
Learn about the saint's life - what were they passionate about, what were their gits and talents, what were their struggles, how did they handle all of those things
Look for a prayer to that saint or write one of your own; talk to him or her about something you have in common that you'd like their help with
Ways to Welcome them into homes, lives, and relationships
Find out their feast day and celebrate it
How does your family usually celebrate an achievement or special occasion? Do the same for that saint
Did they have a favorite food you could eat?
What country were they from, pick a food or decor that coincides with that heritage (St. Maria Goretti was from Italy, decorate with red/white/green or eat pasta)
What is something they are known for or loved to do? Try to imitate those actions (St. Therese of Lisieux tried to do little acts of love throughout her day)
Put up pictures or statues of the saints (just like you would of family and friends), be ready to share something about them if you're asked
Bring them into your conversations with others, "I know someone who dealt with that..." or "I just read this funny story about..."
Check out The Little Rose Shopwhich has a calendar of feasts and celebrations that you can add to your personal calendar (Google, Outlook, Apple, Yahoo, Office 365).
St. Faustina Feast Day
Feast Day: Oct 5
“When I see that the burden is beyond my strength, I do not consider or analyze it or probe into it, but I run like a child to the Heart of Jesus and say only one word to Him: 'You can do all things.' And then I keep silent, because I know that Jesus Himself will intervene in the matter, and as for me, instead of tormenting myself, I use that time to love Him.” – St. Faustina
Reflection:
There are some problems that are out of our control. We might not even know where to start, and we can become overwhelmed by trying to figure out a solution. Obviously, we can’t do everything on our own. We are not made to be autonomous. Rather, we were made for communion: unity with others. We need community.
More than that, as children of God, we were made to love God above all. He has a divine plan for all of us, and He doesn’t leave His children. We don’t have to figure everything out on our own. He cares for us immensely, so much so that He sent His Son to suffer and die for us. God knows us intimately, and He knows about every struggle, obstacle, or burden we have. He can intervene to help us through these situations. He can send people to our aid. He can resolve the problem in His time and in His way. God might call us to take action or seek counsel in order for the problem to be resolved. It might not be the way or the resolution that we thought, but God
always comes through on His promises.
St. Faustina understands the importance of leaning on God in all things. She knows that there are some burdens that she cannot solve without God’s help. Wisely, St. Faustina boldly states to God, “You can do all things,” and then she trusts that God will take care of the issue.
Let’s be like St. Faustina. Can we relinquish control of our burdens to God? Can we trust in Him that He will intervene and help us? And most importantly, can we use our time and energy to love God instead of dwelling on the problem? As St. Faustina would say, “Jesus I trust in You.”
Prayer:
Dear God, I know that You can do all things. I trust that You will intervene in the burden I am carrying. I give control to You. I trust in You and Your divine plan. May I use my time to love You and trust You instead of dwelling on things I cannot change. May Your peace flood my heart. I love You! Amen.
St. Teresa of Avila was a powerhouse of a saint. She is known for her beautiful writings and is now declared a doctor of the Church. There are currently only four female doctors of the Church, and she is one of them. She is a big deal.
It is said that St. Teresa used to stand outside of the confessional, and once her sisters left the confessional she would tell them, “Begin again”. She would look them in the eye and hold onto their shoulders and speak directly to them.
When we leave the confessional, we have the opportunity to start new, start fresh. We have so much left ahead of us. We can, with God’s grace and direction, “begin again,” as St. Teresa declared.
We are all human and make mistakes. Some mistakes are larger than others, but we serve a God who is all-knowing, merciful, and forgiving. He does not want us to stay put in a place of sadness or despair. Rather, He embraces His son or daughter and welcomes them to His table.
Let us remember the parable of the prodigal son. After your trial, your remorse, and your period of forgiveness, there will be much rejoicing in your conversion of heart.
With this in mind, may our imperfections draw us ever closer to the loving arms of our Father.
What will your new beginning bring? How can you serve the Lord and His people in this new season?
Prayer:
Dear God, I sometimes falter in my steps on the road to holiness. I know that You are a merciful Father, always ready to forgive. You desire my conversion of heart. May I always run to You and seek Your guidance in confession. May I begin again with a transformed heart. I love You Jesus. Amen.
A statue of St. Teresa of Avila stands in the sanctuary of the Serra Chapel at Mission San Juan Capistrano in San Juan Capistrano, Calif., July 27, 2015. In a 2021 video message marking the 50th anniversary of the proclamation of St. Teresa as a doctor of the church, Pope Francis said the Spanish saint is an example for all Christians on the importance and need of prayer. (CNS photo/Nancy Wiechec)